Considering a sexy trip down the old dirt road? Let these tales of tush-tapping triumph and backdoor bummers serve as your guide before diving in.
Anal sex can be intense, sexy, and fun; but it can also veer into the muddy terrain of painful and… poopy. For anal veterans and newbies alike, there are some definite do’s and don’ts to plowing the old dirt road.
“I have anal sex about once a week, and before I do it, I prep,” Lana* says. “I do a thorough cleanse with an anal douche, and then I make sure I have plenty of lube before my man sticks his dick inside me.”
The backdoor is filled with sensitive nerves, and orgasms from sodomy can be incredibly intense. Even so, some people still avoid the act because penetration can hurt at first. That’s why ass aficionados often recommend starting slow, for the benefit of the ass and mind alike.
“I have to emotionally and physically prepare myself for butt stuff,” Gina* shares. “I like my partner to lick my asshole to get me relaxed. I don’t actually like having a cock in there, but something smaller like fingers or beads drive me wild.”