Looking to get into some complimentary sex? Join us as we explore affirmation play, also known as praise kink.
Despite an increasingly fetish-friendly culture, getting kinky is still a frightening affair for some folks. For those perplexed about how to go about fitting your little love muffin with a ball gag or how to install a sturdy sex swing above your bed, rest easy—not every kink forces a person down on all fours to submit to a giant strap-on. No, sir—there’s such a thing as praise kink. That’s a sexual situation where all a man may need to do to get his lady’s muff humming like a power line with pubic hair is spill some borderline poetic jibber-jabber while he’s inside her. Perhaps give her a Shakespearean salute, so to speak, letting her know that there is nothing else he’d rather be doing at this very moment in time than defiling her sweet ass.
The fetish referred to as praise kink (otherwise known as affirmation play) is all the rage with the ladies, but men remain clueless as to how to employ this simple vocal tool to make it work for them. It’s not like it’s a new development, either. Many ladies have been hot for this level of woman-worship for quite some time. It’s just that, since praise doesn’t get a lot of screen time in the movies or any of the sultry shows Netflix has to offer, men are completely oblivious that simply giving their partner a “good girl” while his balls are draped across her chin can make all the difference between good sex and that of legends. These coital endorsements can even start with some modest mumblings, some women say. Start, for example, by telling her how beautiful she looks. “Women love to be told things like that during sex,” Evelyn, 29, tells HUSTLERMagazine.com. “We never get tired of that.”
“There’s nothing hotter than a guy admiring my pussy.”
Lesley
The praise might start with some mushy, lovey-dovey crap, but make no mistake, it can also take a turn for the naughty. In affirmation play, praise and dirty talk can collide, creating a vibe that is more carnal and devoid of sentimentality. Some of the ladies we talked to revealed that seductive statements like, “Your pussy feels so good,” “You have an amazing body,” and “That’s my girl” are just a few utterances that take their arousal to the next level. One woman named Lesley even tells us that when a man tells her that he’s waited all day to put his cock inside her, the juices start flowing. “There’s nothing hotter than a guy admiring my pussy,” she says.
