Reluctant to take a more submissive role in the bedroom? Allow us to explain the benefits of letting your lady get on top and take the reins on occasion.
Generally speaking, in the bedroom, the man likes to take charge. On top, from behind, tossing his partner around like a rag doll—Papa Power wants to be at the wheel to take her to Pound Town. This has been the general fucking dynamic since humans crawled up out of the sea. Historically speaking, most straight men haven’t exactly been eager to play the submissive role in bed, at least none that aren’t comfortable in a dog leash and a ball gag. And while many women are perfectly fine letting their man steer the sexual ship toward that beautiful, orgasmic horizon, there’s a growing number of gals who wouldn’t mind getting into the driver’s seat now and then. “I don’t always want sex to be something that happens to me,” Becky, 37, tells HUSTLERMagazine.com. “I want to be an active participant.”
“I don’t always want sex to be something that happens to me. I want to be an active participant.”
Becky
As you might have guessed, Becky’s not alone. More women these days crave a shift in their diddle-time dynamics. It’s not that they have the desire to emasculate their men or even take over the reins full-time. It’s just that being in control gets them hornier than all get-out, and they want their turn on top. Hey, fair is fair. “There’s something sexy about taking control,” Jamie, 29, tells us.
