A guide to successfully adding XXX to your relationship.
Lockdown took many of us by surprise. A lot of couples are finding themselves separated, which can take a toll on any relationship—but so can being cooped up together (especially for those who aren’t used to it).
Some may have voluntarily chosen to spend the lockdown period apart, but for others, who made the decision to bunker down together under fear of prolonged separation, tensions have probably formed.
Some of these irritants may be innocuous enough, and usually revolve around the frequency of which household chores and mundane duties are carried out. Or maybe you never realised just how much reality TV your partner enjoys. Other precarious instances, however, might take a little more care and delicacy to work around. Such as a robust porn habit, and the fact that you’ve just discovered you can’t jerk off to the latest HUSTLER videos in the living room whenever you feel like it anymore.
Well…perhaps you can’t. On the other side of the coin, you could always try incorporating some XXX spice into the relationship.
This is, however, a bit of a minefield. Pornography has always been the swinging elephant cock in the room. Everybody knows it’s there. Everybody knows what it’s for, yet, even in 2020, some people still have a hard time bringing it up as part of a relationship.
But not only is it both perfectly natural and healthy to enjoy porn, it can also be very cathartic for couples to watch it together. A couple of years ago, an academic study into the effects of introducing pornography into a relationship found that it led to a greater sense of connection, as well as an increased desire for intimacy for the couples involved.
