Want to take a stroll up the old dirt road, but you’re not sure where to start? Don’t worry; we’re here to lead you on the path to butt-sex bliss.
Sexual activities tend to come with varying degrees of difficulty—just think about the difference between an orgy and a blowjob. For lots of folks, anal sex ranks fairly high on the perceived challenge scale, but that doesn’t mean it’s not worth the effort—it just takes a little more preparation. And when it comes to anal sex, preparation isn’t just a good idea—it’s a necessity.
Thankfully, there are a lot of ways to go about it. If the person on the receiving end is new to butt play, there’s a very good chance that you won’t even get to the main event (whether that’s a dildo or a dick) until you’ve gone through a few warm-up sessions. So where do you start?
The first rule of Butt Club is lube, lube, and more lube. Unlike vaginas, buttholes are not self-lubricating, so it doesn’t matter how turned-on you are—you’re going to need some assistance. This is true for any type of anal play, not just penetration.