There’s always a sense of introspection when the end of another year comes around, but the end of a decade—and the beginning of a new one—is even more notable. It’s a time to reflect upon achievements, highlights and hopes. It’s also the perfect opportunity to clean house, cast out a few old habits and draft in a couple of new ones. Because, let’s face it, we could always use a little self-improvement, right?
Perhaps we aim to drink less, lose a little weight, give veganism a try or quit smoking. But with the chance for a fresh start, why not make some sexual resolutions for the new year as well? If you’re in a relationship, this might mean looking at ways to develop your sex life to prevent it from becoming stuck in a habitual rut. Or it might simply involve finding new methods of having fun together. If you’re single, you might consider expanding your areas of erotic interest so you can discover more enjoyable, interesting and entertaining ways to get off.
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Resolutions for Couples
Variety is the spice of life, and it’s never a bad idea to try something you and your partner haven’t experienced before. There are many ways to initiate and develop this process so that it becomes empowering and beneficial to your relationship. Sexual communication and evolution allow you to get to know both your partner and yourself in a much more intimate, connected way. Just because you like certain things now doesn’t mean that has to be the sex you have forever. Here are a few ways you can start shaking things up a little.
Make a list of fantasies and tick one off a month. This way, you get to keep the fun going all year ’round. They can be as minor or spectacular as you wish, but don’t immediately take it as a given that they’ll happen. Take turns and alternate who gets to choose their desires, making sure to be open and honest as you discuss and experiment. From cosplay to threesomes, BDSM to role play, there are limitless possibilities. By communicating your fantasies, you’ll be engaging in a healthy dialogue that will definitely result in some mind-blowing experiences. Which leads us to our next point…