Yes, the orgasm gap is real—which means you might not be getting your partner off the way you thought you were. The good news is, there are ways to bridge the climax chasm and reliably drive your mate to O-Town.
When two people get busy in the bedroom, the hope is that everyone gets theirs before the deed is all said and done. At times, it works out wonderfully, allowing both parties to scurry off to Denny’s for a post-porking snack feeling like all is right in the world. But there are instances when a man encounters a stubborn snatch. He might have been up there pumping away, seemingly doing the Lord’s work, trying his best to get that pussy hissing and spitting like an alley cat, only to learn that the only puddle he left her in is one of malcontent.
Unfortunately, women don’t always have orgasms, which can lead to feelings of disappointment, not to mention some rather tense moments for the man as he’s putting his underwear back on. Some of the latest statistics show the orgasm gap is more of a coital canyon. Only 32% of women come during a random sexual encounter, while 82% of guys bust a nut every time. The situation can be even more dire in a committed relationship, where a man has nowhere to run once he fails to flick her switch. Why, he might even be forced to talk to her about it—gasp!
“I would like it if, just once, a guy asked how to make me come instead of just trying to pound it out of me.”
Claire
Of course, openly discussing sex, especially when it gets clumsy and unfulfilling, can feel like navigating a minefield. I mean, how in the heck is a man supposed to face a woman who didn’t get off? Some guys we talked to claim they’d rather die before admitting that they had failed to satisfy a partner in the sack. “I’d pray for a heart attack,” Clay, 34, tells HUSTLERMagazine.com. “You’d have to move out. I can’t see any other option in such a case.”
