Has your relationship lost its sexual spark? Try getting hands-on—without the expectation of banging.
If there’s one gripe most guys have about the women they’re with, it’s that she just doesn’t put out like she used to. In the beginning, their sex life played out like a scene from Squirtwoman 3, but over time, it fizzled into something closer to Blue Valentine. These days, brushing shoulders in the hallway on the way to the bathroom is about as close as they get to intimacy.
What many guys don’t realize, though, is that the real problem might not be a lack of sex, but a lack of touch.
Now, before you go charging over to your significant other and start honking her boobs or grabbing a fistful of ass, hoping a little groping will have her shimmying out of her panties, let’s pump the brakes. The kind of touch we’re talking about here is non-sexual. Yep, you heard that right. I know that might sound like a foreign concept to some of you horny hounds eager to fast-track it to Pound Town, but it just might be the missing piece standing between you and a far more satisfying sex life.
“My ex-husband never touched me unless he wanted sex. There was no affection.”
