If you’ve ever fantasized about being someone else’s obedient sex toy, your fetish has a name: “Free Use.” The fantasy of being used, sexually, by anyone at any time can be a rush; but like any kink, it must be carefully negotiated and executed in a way where everyone feels respected and fulfilled. Nonconsent requires consent. Got it?
And as Free Use gains traction, both in porn and people’s personal lives, it behooves us to listen and learn from those who enjoy it and know how to do it properly—not so much technique as the primacy of boundaries and communication. Paging Dr. Button!
The last time we checked in with the 6-2 Aussie stunner/stoner, she was regaling us with her adventures in high altitude sex [“Mile High Mayhem,” May ’23]. This month, we welcome Sarah back for a master class on her favorite fetish.
