We live in a golden age of sexual awareness. From gender identity to ethical nonmonogamy, people are more open than ever to the full spectrum of what sex and sexuality have to offer. So the next time your partner broaches the topic of pegging, don’t pucker up and shut down; just relax, and open your…mind to the possibilities of butt play.
A Refinery29 article from last summer highlights the female experience of pegging and how women feel about strapping on. Reactions range from the appeal of dominance (“I think pegging would make me feel powerful”) to keeping things interesting (“My boyfriend says I get better every time we do it”). It challenges the notion of cis het sex, and that freaks some guys out. Careful, your fragile masculinity is showing.
