It’s not exactly the kind of job your high school guidance counselor recommends, but who cares what a guidance counselor thinks? Suffice it to say, if kink is your calling and safety your mantra, then you may have what it takes to be a dungeon monitor.
A dungeon monitor is sort of like a BDSM lifeguard in that they are there to ensure everyone is safe and following the rules. You’ll see them at kink and play parties, workshops and other community events that involve multiple participants. Attendance comes with the tacit agreement to follow a set of simple rules designed to keep things consensual and safe. This requires oversight to ensure that everyone is compliant.
Goddess Kyaa Chimera (readers will remember from our “Diary of a Sex Worker 2” feature in the January ’23 HUSTLER) is a domme’s domme and dungeon monitor who considers it an honor to help everyone have the best experience possible. It’s important to know who the monitors are at an event. She says, “Don’t be afraid to approach them, ask questions and learn how to get the most out of your time in the dungeon!” Here Kyaa lays down the terms of engagement.
