Kendra Spade

About Kendra Spade

“I know how to flirt. It isn’t romantic or sexual. It’s more of a delicate stroke of the person’s ego. You have to know how to appeal to their desires. If it seems like the flirtation is benefiting them more than it is benefiting you, then you’re doing it right.

“With sex, there needs to be give and take. For instance, I keep my pussy impeccable—it looks and smells amazing—because I really want a guy to go down on me. I don’t even care if he’s good; it’s more about him making the attempt to please me that pleases me.

“I enjoy rough sex, but my feelings toward it have changed: I am pickier about who I let throw me around, spank me or choke me. I’ve let a boyfriend choke me to the point of passing out, but I absolutely trusted him. Giving that trust to a stranger is too hard. But when I trust my lover, the sex is passionate and intense. There’s a small group of male and female performers who I’m so comfortable with that I’ll let them handle me any way they want, on camera or off. It’s exhilarating.”