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NOOOOOOOODIE GIRL • Stoya
Stoya is an adult performer, writer and master of avoiding pants. Her writing has been published by The Guardian, The New York Times and The New Inquiry. She maintains a blog at GraphicDescriptions.com and recommends you refrain from Googling her at work.
Murphy’s Law of Inappropriate Behavior states that if you make a habit of taking your clothes off in public, eventually everyone in your family (including members so distant they share less DNA with you than a chimpanzee does with a cuttlefish) will somehow stumble upon documentation of what you’re up to.
My grandmother is a very smart woman, and I’d been dodging the question of what I did for a living for at least three professionally naked years. I really had been meaning to tell her about my job before she found out from the television or a newspaper, but I thought I’d do it when I was ready. “Ready” consistently being defined as any time except for right now.